Gargh! I'm such a chi bai! Just now whilst taking a coffee break I went on FB. I'm really anal about relationship status/ status' in general and how one minute people are "in a relationship" then they have a minor disagreement and it changes to "it's complicated" followed by a "Such and such is SO over whoever" etc. Then it changes to "Single" (with a picture of a broken heart)Then, within two hours it's back to "In a relationship" (with a full complete heart) and their status is "Such and such loves whoever sooooo much" Ergh!
This is exactly the reason why I told Blanks I'm never making you my "boyfriend" on FB. Because of course eventually, you get in my situation and someone has to remove the status and it comes up in the newsfeed in BIG BRIGHT BOLD LETTERS with a BROKEN HEART and then EVERYONE has a comment or two to make.... people, that is what a blog is for! Aiyo! Narks me off so much!
So anyway....
I just went on FB (for the record, I'm listed as married to H, just for fun, to avoid all this stupid shit) and I don't believe in using an FB Status to make a point to 1 individual out of 300+ friends.
However yesterday I did write "Bubs - Every cloud has a pink and glittery lining" because I was feeling yes, there is a cloud in my life right now but lots of good things from it can come. I don't think that's really very immature or making a point to Blanks specifically, in fact, I didn't think of him when I wrote it. I just felt very positive and upbeat.
Then today, I see his status (which by the way he has only ever updated twice in our relationship both times referred to me) and it says "Blanks is hating the obvious...".
Gargh! What does that mean? Is it implying that I am being obvious? That he is hating what is obvious right now - that we have split up? OR does the whole universe not revolve around me and it have no reference to me at all and I should get over myself? No, couldn't possibly be that (haha) HHhhhmmm.
God, that's really wound me up for some reason.
In conclusion, Facebook Status' suck, they always did and they always will. Too much room for misinterpretation. Bah!
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- Bubs
- Surrey, United Kingdom
- "I have found that if a problem rears its head, the best way to deal with it is by being highly emotional, inconsistent and super irrational and the problem tends to go away..."
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